When Every Day Matters: A Mother’s Memoir on Love, Loss and Life
September 28th, 2008The following post is by MJ Hurley Brant
Let me share with you that my book, When Every Day Matters: A Mother’s Memoir on Love, Loss and Life will enter the world on October 1, 2008. At that moment it will no longer be mine and I will refer to it as “The Book”. In this book I invite you to accompany my intimate walk with my beautiful daughter Katie, a formidable, courageous and wise young woman who for 10 years battled a brain tumor. And while Katie left her earthly life at 28 years of age, you will come to experience how Katie Brant accomplished a hundred lifetimes of good.
This memoir is spiritual, psychological and heart-felt. Many colleagues who have read When Every Day Matters said that not only is it a powerful book which discusses soulful issues, but it is so compelling it reads as a novel.
Questions of faith are addressed in this book, hard questions about how we can continue our lives when we have suffered incalculable loss and what part our faith actually plays into the decision to stay in our lives. In this book I draw on my 28 years experience as a practicing psychotherapist and certified group psychotherapist and I examine the psychological aspects of our life and death struggle. I also felt it important and necessary to speak candidly about the family issues that surround a family during times of crisis and loss. I think it takes great authenticity and integrity to live our own life and not someone else’s idea of what our life should be. Because of that belief I encourage my reader to do just that. I also reveal how I fought to regain the life that I had in front of me.
We all know that after a devastating loss the journey to recovery is a lonely one, but you don’t have to walk it alone. I would like to walk with you as a companion out of the darkness of life’s most bewildering experiences and into the light of day. I understand completely that none of us can get over our losses until we go through them. I would like to be your guide to the other side of life, to the other side of your loss. I hope that you will let me. Until then, Make Your Every Day Matter.



